Today we discuss why nannies are invisible on Instagram, and whether we should share more or less on social media. Sarah reveals why she thinks her grandmother is haunting her. We learn about a service that allows you to record messages for your loved ones to watch after you’ve died (and we decide whether this is creepy or awesome). Plus we find out the science of why left cheek selfies are better than right. We reveal our biggest fears, and Susie talks about a study that shows we feel more pain during surgery than we realized. Today’s show is brought to you by BioClarity, for $20 off your first month plus free shipping, go to bioclarity.com and use code BRAINCANDY. And if you register for your wedding at zola.com/braincandy, you’ll get $50 towards anything on the site. And go to SmartAboutMoney.org/candy to get FREE info about finances and how to manage your money.